I can be a better wife #ByeTumblr

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I always shed a tear  when I saw a woman who loves her husband so greatly, adore him, and could say ‘I love you’ just through her eyes. They deserve their husband. Do I?
My husband deserves more but yet, yes, I can be a better wife.

This morning, I found that someone has done the dishes which I left on the sink the night before. I am living this house with my husband only.

I went back to the bedroom and looking to a sleepy head I call husband and lifetime bestfriend. I kissed him to say  thank you. And sorry.
Why?

I was so tired and have a little ‘silet treatment’ to my husband. it’s all because he came home from work and the very first thing he’s doing is open the computer and….. work again.
I know. I am so unmatured.

It takes eleven-months-of-marriage for me to understand that my husband is ALWAYS beyond my expectation. I always expecting someone who care for me all the time ( especially when you’re 15 weeks pregnant!). But what happen today was overwhelming me. A lot.

yes, I devoted my life to love this man. Today and for the rest of my life. 

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Thanks a Minion #ByeTumblr

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Hi! It’s Thanks giving!

I live in a country who doesn’t celebrate it, but I think I’ll give a small thought about it.
I live in Indonesia.  Bali, (if it more familiar with ), is only one of thousands beautiful travel destination in here. Give it a visit and you’ll know why I love being here for my 25 years life time.
In Indonesia, we say  ‘Terima Kasih’  for  ‘Thank You’.
Terima means Receive.
Kasih means Love.
So, when you said thank you to someone in Bahasa, you show them that you’ve received their love.
Cute? I know :p
And here I come writing my received-Love list from God.
In the other word, this is how I say THANK YOU GOD  :)
  • Thank You for  who I were, who I am and who I am going to be. Every time I look back, I am extremely thank God for He never leave a second in my entire life.  The childhood, teenage dream, love story, and many more huge things ahead.
  • Thank You for my best friend who crazy enough to marry me. The marriage –which had always turn on my ‘heavy topic’ alarm- has become the most exited journey that I’ve never imagine before. Thank you, hubby, for loving me this way. I have a lot of laugh, tears, angry, fight  and everything, a lot enough to strengthen our Friend-SHIP.
  • Thank You for the miracle that growing up inside me now. ( I am in week 19, yeay!)  Thank You for never stop believing me to do such a great job as a woman.
  • Thank You for showing me that wife-life is not about a mountain of laundry or dishes in the sink (which often lead me to a day full of complaining) but how You give me strength whenever I think I’ll never make it. Thank You for never give up on me, especially when I try to beat myself.

That’s all?
Of course not.
I have a proper job, great friends who keep their arms on my back,  the most inspiring parents in the words, a lovely family-in –law, everything.
But the greatest of all, I know that my Savior who redeemed me keep His eyes on me.
Terima Kasih Yesus
(Thank You Jesus )

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My first Tumblr Post: Einstein Quotes #ByeTumblr

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new in tumblr.my first post. and i choose Albert Einstein to be my first topics. really adore the way he looking into this life and still surprising for me that Albert Einstein is dyslexia. These are some ‘wow’ quotes from Albert Einstein.
  • “Any intelligent fool can make things bigger, more complex, and more violent. It takes a touch of genius – and a lot of courage – to move in the opposite direction.”
  • “Imagination is more important than knowledge.”
  • “Gravitation is not responsible for people falling in love.”
  • “I want to know God’s thoughts; the rest are details.”
  • “The hardest thing in the world to understand is the income tax.”
  • “The only real valuable thing is intuition.”
  • “A person starts to live when he can live outside himself.”
  • “Weakness of attitude becomes weakness of character.”
  • “I never think of the future. It comes soon enough.”
  • “The eternal mystery of the world is its comprehensibility.”
  • “Sometimes one pays most for the things one gets for nothing.”
  • “Science without religion is lame. Religion without science is blind.”
  • “Anyone who has never made a mistake has never tried anything new.”
  • “Great spirits have often encountered violent opposition from weak minds.”
  • “Everything should be made as simple as possible, but not simpler.”
  • “Common sense is the collection of prejudices acquired by age eighteen.”
  • “Science is a wonderful thing if one does not have to earn one’s living at it.”
  • “The secret to creativity is knowing how to hide your sources.”
  • “The only thing that interferes with my learning is my education.”
  • “God does not care about our mathematical difficulties. He integrates empirically.”
  • “The whole of science is nothing more than a refinement of everyday thinking.”
  • “Technological progress is like an axe in the hands of a pathological criminal.”
  • “Peace cannot be kept by force. It can only be achieved by understanding.”
  • “The most incomprehensible thing about the world is that it is comprehensible.”
  • “We can’t solve problems by using the same kind of thinking we used when we created them.”
  • “Education is what remains after one has forgotten everything he learned in school.”
  • “The important thing is not to stop questioning. Curiosity has its own reason for existing.”
  • “Do not worry about your difficulties in Mathematics. I can assure you mine are still greater.”
  • “Equations are more important to me, because politics is for the present, but an equation is something for eternity.”
  • “If A is a success in life, then A equals x plus y plus z. Work is x; y is play; and z is keeping your mouth shut.”
  • “Two things are infinite: the universe and human stupidity; and I’m not sure about the the universe.”
  • “As far as the laws of mathematics refer to reality, they are not certain, as far as they are certain, they do not refer to reality.”
  • “Whoever undertakes to set himself up as a judge of Truth and Knowledge is shipwrecked by the laughter of the gods.”
  • “I know not with what weapons World War III will be fought, but World War IV will be fought with sticks and stones.”
source: http://rescomp.stanford.edu/~cheshire/EinsteinQuotes.html

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Bangga Dengan Produk Lokal: Kacang Dua Kelinci #ByeTumblr

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Last month I went  to my hometown, Pati. It is a very small town in Indonesia that I oftentimes need to explain how to get there from another town that more familiar when anyone ask me ’where is your hometown?’ :DD

And..

I found something  good to share here. PT Dua Kelinci, the official sponsor of Real Madrid comes from my lovely hometown, Pati..tadaaa..X)

I kinda a little bit chuffed of that of course..>:D
I visited ‘KiosKelinci’, a mini market that sells every product of Dua kelinci in an attractive package (like a parcel) and souvenirs like t-shirts and mugs in DuaKelinci’s theme. I took the picture with 2D Luis Figo (yeah, I know that’s absurd).
Go Pati go..Be pride of Indonesia.

moral message: success doesn’t depend on the place where do you come from, but the place where are you going  to be :)

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Selling Curiousity #ByeTumblr

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my mother is a seller. we have a little shop sells every daily need in our house. I had been an assistant for my mom ,since I was six :D And for those years what I could say about selling is ‘people need something, and you have it’. Something I meant here is a real things. Meals, cigarette, ice tea, soap.
But, you know, these days people need something more. And some people even sell more.
Curiousity

This was what i’m thinking about when i bought two stuffs below:

1. Maicih chips from Bandung
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I bought Maicih  because  a friend of mine told me it has ten levels of  extra hot spicy . yeah ten levels. I decided to choose 5th level, tasted it and..
it’s &$($$##*$&()(&*&*!! 
my tummy was burn. haha..
two thumbs up for the creator of Maicih, they successfully sells curiousity ..>:D

2. Pancake Company
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Pancake’s Company sels their pancake, poffertjess and many more, right accross the house of my boyfriend. They open daily at 6 pm and at 9 they’ve already put their 'sold out’ board. Three times I went there with my bf without buy anything and disappointed, because they’ve already sold out. I was like :OMG. And said my bf  “ that’s their strategic, making people curious” .

yeah, genius..
anyway, if anyone from Maicih or Pancake’s company read this blog, I wanna say :no offense, please :DD Your pancakes are so yum and yum, and Maicih..you’re so HOT.. :)) I meant it.

gud evening people..stay curious..

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Everyone has their fave movies. So do I. Definetely, maybe. #ByeTumblr

09:21 utheychan 0 Comments

O yeah..

 I know it’s been a very long long time since I wrote the last time. I’m sorry tumblr, you have to share my attention with my brand new husband.
 Yeah, I’m married now J

 Living a life with a fulltime job and full-of-love husband needs to be care of obviously not a life I’d call ‘ a happy life’.  Everyday I woke up at 4.30, prepare the foods and comute to the office. My afterwork daily routine is wash the dishes, ironing, house cleaning and…fyuh.
How can these stuffs called a happy life? I’d rather call it a Thank-God-Life. Because, you know. Without God, I’m nothing. With God, I can do anything. Yeah, quoting Paul  with different version of mine. :p

 Let’s enough with a happy wife writing. I want to write down my opinion about a movie. As I did before, I love to review a recently year ago movie. Why? Because I’ll love to write something I really love to see. And I guess everyone has their most favorite movie that they don’t mind to watch over and over without getting bored. So do I.
 And now, please welcome my second favorite movie after Julie and Julia…Definitely, maybe.


 Starring Ryan Reynolds (oh..I’m melting with the sound of his name) and three gorgeous women. Elizabeth Banks, Rachel Weisz, and Isla Fisher.
 When I’m upset. I watch this movie. When I dunno what I have to watch, this definitely, maybe does a really good on  my mood. I have to thanks to Adam Brooks that got Abigail Breslin into her best act as Maya ( Will’s daughter ). She did a big part of this movie’s beauty plot. She want to know why do her mom and dad had a divorce. I love when she began with a question. ‘Dad, what brought you and mom in love? | because she’s smart, beautiful, and fun | So now she’s stupid, ugly, and boring?|’
 

 That’s a very smart question from a little girl. Be careful with your marriage, fellas. You know that your kids maybe are smart enough to ask the same question when you guys decide a divorce.

 Then this magic question brought Will’s memories to the day he met three women he was in love. And he did like a mystery story telling to Maya and she had to guess which one is her mom.

Four of four person that had watched this movie gave the wrong answer. So did I. Yeah, I thougt that was April. (huh!)
Good story line. Good cast. 

 *yok dipilih-dipilih, siapa mamanya Maya ya?
 
And what makes me so love this movie? Because, it offers a true love. I don’t really believe love at the first sight. I know true love is true best friend. It’s simply because of you have no idea about living a life time with someone who (was) love in you but you still looking for a best friend.
I proved that theory with my marriage now. I love my husband , I know he loves me too. And thank God we start with best friend, an then boy/girl fiend into marriage.

So, haven’t found ‘the one’ yet? Maybe they’ve already around you all the time. Just listen to your heart or you can wait until your daughter shows you like Maya did to Will.


Love!

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God will never give me more than He can handle. #ByeTumblr

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Time is weird. Really really weird.

I was looking to a woman on a mirror this morning, she looks like me a couple years ago ( except the hair I thought) and how time turns her a little bit different on appearence but a lot of things on the inside.

Yeah, instead of seeing a girl, I saw a woman on the mirror today. To be exact, a mother-to-be.
What? yeah. As shocked as it’s heard, I’m pregnant.

I have been leaving this blog for so long ago, I am well awared of this. But I am not going to hell because of that, am I?
I really have to spare times to write all the story that I skipped before the pregnant. But please kindly let me go with the baby first. :D

I married a best guy ever in my life on December 27 last year. He’s been through all the chapter of my life for 4 years. Up until now I can hardly believed how God keep doing amazing things in our life. The marriage, and now the baby. How can a 25-yo girl are capable to do a great great job as a MOTHER?

Nobody can answer that, but God do.
Thanks to Ashley, a Christian wife blogger that I follow. After I saw the two lines on my test pack ( my hands were so shaking!), I read what she wrote about being Feeling Inadequate. About how she turned “God will never give you more than you can handle” to “God will never give me more than He can handle.”
We’re young.
We haven’t had our own house, or even a car.
We’ve been saving for baby,house and car but we have to wait until next year to withdraw it. (and it’s not that big amount of money!)
God can’t be wrong. There are thousands of marriage couple, ready for a cute kids, settled down and have everything the baby needs but still waiting.

He exactly knows what He’s doing on us. But yet I still feel like I’m cutting the line.
To kill that feeling, I keep telling myself “God will never give me more than He can handle.”

##ignore my cute face, Im ready to be a mom yeah!


Thank you God.
It’s been an honour to be Your precious daughter and son, and You even give us more.



Note: I found a cool website about pregnant, thebump.com and find that I have a raspberry-baby since it’s on the week 8. How cute!

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Migrasi Blog #ByeTumblr

08:57 utheychan 0 Comments

Sebelum punya blog dengan platform Blogger ini, saya nulisnya di Tumblr. Waktu itu awal2 tahun 2009an gitu. Tapi entah gimana akhirnya saya ended up dengan platform ini dan blog tumblr saya alhasil tak terjamah lagi. Jadii...saya akan pindah beberapa post yang menurut saya ok dan memorable disini, dan officially I'll say good bye Tumblr. You've been such a good friend that show many good things in life through those fashion and lifestyle blogger. And I will never forget that I know Nicole Loher from you. Who is she? Saya pernah nulis sedikit disini.
So, enjoy beberapa postingan lama yang bermigrasi dari blog tumblr ke blog yang jumlah postingannya juga tak seberapa ini #hiks

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